Now I bet this title caught all you PERVERTS attention… haha
I’m actually joking 90% of you guys aren’t perverts, you other 10% I should’ve
started talking about goats or something through this whole piece. But let’s
get down to the nitty gritty! Of course if you know me then you know that I am
abstinent. And I’ve always been proud of my choice. I haven’t always been
decided when I was in the 10th grade of high school, and it was a
beautiful choice that I made. NOW that does NOT mean that I look down on people
who chose to have premarital sex. To each its own. But I never wanted to have
multiple unexplainable partners or even waste giving myself to someone who
would later in my life become irrelevant.
When a man and woman are supposed to come together to
consummate it’s supposed to be explosive, magical and a once in a lifetime
feeling. You can’t lose your virginity twice silly! ONCE AGAIN, I am not
judging or saying that it’s wrong. Today’s society glorifies a lot of things
that “I” morally see wrong, but I’m not perfect. I lie a lot and lust just as
much as the next person. I just found ways to divert my urges. Why do you guys
think I love running! It takes your mind and put it into a different place. (I
will be writing about that soon) Something people don’t know about me is that I
am a hopeless romantic. I love Twilight. I spent all weekend watching all 5
movies. My favorite movie in the world is Beastly. (Vanessa Hudgens What’s up
girl!) There’s a part in the film where the guy Alex Pettyfer says to Vanessa:
“You took one look at me and still said, that you’ve seen worse.” That part
could bring me to my knees. Especially if Saving All My Love For You by Whitney
Houston was playing in the background!
Sex: physical activity that is related to and often includes
sexual intercourse. (Merriam-Webster Dictionary)
Consummate: to make (a marriage or romantic relationship)
complete by having sex; to make (something) perfect or complete.
See with the definitions above you can see that sex isn’t
supposed to be just for fun. It’s supposed to complete something. When you find
that person who you holds you to the ground, that’s when I believe sex should
initiate. NOT when you’ve had too many Coronas, took too many Molly’s, gotten a
new ring from Tiffany’s or you think that you guys have known each other long
enough. Yes I also withheld myself for religious reasons but also because why
do people believe if everyone’s doing it (literally) then it must be okay. NO
It’s usually not! We are all lustful, selfish and twisted. Why should we follow
the blind when we ourselves cannot see.
*So I choose to walk the roads less
traveled. It’s lonesome, filled with obstacles,
and often ridiculed. But the
rewards at the
end will be untouched and all mines*.
So next time you GUYS and
some girls choose that you’re “horny” and are gonna go “do it”, think about all
the good reasons not to morally, mentally and physically. Wait. It has to be
worth it. Whenever we wait, we feel so much more fulfilled when we finally
receive what we have anticipated. I love my body and I will treat it as so.
I love you guys more than you know! Seriously you should
make a goal to run half a mile when you get an “urge” of any kind.
RunPrayCreate!
