Shut the *&@% UP! #chismoso #loyalty #allupinmybizness #partition

Yes I am about to go in!!! Why can't people ever just keep quiet or better yet keep something that they've heard to themselves. I am victim to gossip too but I try to not be the Chismoso! (Gossiper for the gringos) haha. But seriously, If I tell you something you don't have to go "whispering" it to every person that smiles at you, because most likely they either don't care or they're just going to judge you for being a gossip. SHUT UP! I'm talking about just about everyone! Why not leave some kind of mystery in your life and other people's lives, especially if you claim to be their friend. If I had a penny for each time someone has walked up to me and asked me about something that they heard from someone else about them..... You would see me hanging with Bill Gates on a daily basis!

I'm dancing to Partition by Beyonce as I write this HAHAHA

Yes it is that bad. And this comes from no loyalty. That's the saddest part about relationships (platonic, kin and romantic), they have no loyalty. Loyalty is when you know no matter what happens, the person you are loyal to comes first. That's what I call  a "Ride o' Die!" What happened to those kind of relationships! THEY DON'T REALLY EXIST. Nowadays you can't even tell your own parents things without the message getting to your friends or vice versa! It's ridiculous. Note this:

I actually tell people who I find disloyal certain parts about my life

just to see how quickly they began to spread it and the best

part is, they always do. I'm actually so deceitfully 

perceptive that I figured this out!

#notagoodthing

My Abuela never ever ever tells anyone anything that I say to her without asking me if it's okay. She is such a gangster! That's why she remains a the top with God. Both are straight hood peeps. But don't get me wrong there are 3 people in my life who just astonish me with their loyalty, respect and honesty. Ricky, Rosney and Carolina. Those are three of my friends that just have such amazing traits that I wish i possessed as gracefully as they do. I could tell Rosney something and never expect him to use to harm me or spread. He's more loyal than a Dalmatian, to all of his people. Carolina could have $5 and I could too and she would still give me hers. Ricky would show up if I called him just to make sure I'm okay, not to see what happened or any juicy information about me that he could tell someone else. THESE ARE REAL NIGGAS! (Excuse my french) But these are my Ride O' Dies! They live life, love people and never intentionally try to harm anyone! I'm usually the one that leads them to gossip haha!

Okay now that I had a little vent, I got a cool job working with kids, My NPO is still on schedule, I'm happy, back in the gym hardcore trying to get my boobs back and my obliques to be sharp! Also I really want better biceps haha. FWP

Now let's stop gossiping. Especially amongst your friends and family. If you have a current girlfriend or boyfriend, don't complain to them about your long time friends or your family because chances are your relationship is never going to be as permanent as family and some friends. Choose your loyalties wisely because they do affect your life. I love you guys and thanks for reading! RunPrayCreate!