Let's Talk About Sex Baby! #marvingaye #sextalk #seriously #morals

Now I bet this title caught all you PERVERTS attention… haha I’m actually joking 90% of you guys aren’t perverts, you other 10% I should’ve started talking about goats or something through this whole piece. But let’s get down to the nitty gritty! Of course if you know me then you know that I am abstinent. And I’ve always been proud of my choice. I haven’t always been decided when I was in the 10^th grade of high school, and it was a beautiful choice that I made. NOW that does NOT mean that I look down on people who chose to have premarital sex. To each its own. But I never wanted to have multiple unexplainable partners or even waste giving myself to someone who would later in my life become irrelevant.

When a man and woman are supposed to come together to consummate it’s supposed to be explosive, magical and a once in a lifetime feeling. You can’t lose your virginity twice silly! ONCE AGAIN, I am not judging or saying that it’s wrong. Today’s society glorifies a lot of things that “I” morally see wrong, but I’m not perfect. I lie a lot and lust just as much as the next person. I just found ways to divert my urges. Why do you guys think I love running! It takes your mind and put it into a different place. (I will be writing about that soon) Something people don’t know about me is that I am a hopeless romantic. I love Twilight. I spent all weekend watching all 5 movies. My favorite movie in the world is Beastly. (Vanessa Hudgens What’s up girl!) There’s a part in the film where the guy Alex Pettyfer says to Vanessa: “You took one look at me and still said, that you’ve seen worse.” That part could bring me to my knees. Especially if Saving All My Love For You by Whitney Houston was playing in the background! 

Sex: physical activity that is related to and often includes sexual intercourse. (Merriam-Webster Dictionary)

Consummate: to make (a marriage or romantic relationship) complete by having sex; to make (something) perfect or complete.

See with the definitions above you can see that sex isn’t supposed to be just for fun. It’s supposed to complete something. When you find that person who you holds you to the ground, that’s when I believe sex should initiate. NOT when you’ve had too many Coronas, took too many Molly’s, gotten a new ring from Tiffany’s or you think that you guys have known each other long enough. Yes I also withheld myself for religious reasons but also because why do people believe if everyone’s doing it (literally) then it must be okay. NO It’s usually not! We are all lustful, selfish and twisted. Why should we follow the blind when we ourselves cannot see. 

*So I choose to walk the roads less 

traveled. It’s lonesome, filled with obstacles,

 and often ridiculed. But the rewards at the 

 end will be untouched and all mines*.

 So next time you GUYS and some girls choose that you’re “horny” and are gonna go “do it”, think about all the good reasons not to morally, mentally and physically. Wait. It has to be worth it. Whenever we wait, we feel so much more fulfilled when we finally receive what we have anticipated. I love my body and I will treat it as so.

I love you guys more than you know! Seriously you should make a goal to run half a mile when you get an “urge” of any kind. RunPrayCreate!