So this is a
touchy subject for me, and probably a lot of you guys! So bare with me.
LOVE. What exactly does it have to do with success or happiness? Si claro, I have my own opinion of it, but have you ever thought about the absence of love? If we were just conceived out of lust and duty... It makes you wonder. Sometimes I don't believe in the general idea of love, but maybe it's due to my lack of recieving it. (Go ahead and say "Awww" in you heads) But I love myself. Is that enough? Of course I have Gods love.
MORE THAN ENOUGH! HAHA. But no seriously it is. Anyways....
My doubt of love, is it the way society has me and the future generations thinking? Marriage is no longer sacred. It's consummated from money, lust and greed. Men and women are sexually attracted and wed each other, they want to inherit what the significant other possesses financially, and want to control their lives by marrying who they may think makes them look good or benefit them in this society. Is that love? IF it is, I don't want any part of it. (
SAD I know)
But instead what happened to the guy bumping into the girl at the coffee shop and then she spills her drink on her nice white blouse and then he offers to buy her another one.... on a different day, where they intentionally meet and then she looks into his eyes and notice that he is the man that she wants to spend the rest of her life with. Now he's on his third date with her when she laughs with the most obnoxious laugh and then snorts, now he notices that there is no other woman that will ever make him feel this way again. To me....
This ^ is love. When that significant other just makes you smile when they're nowhere near you or you haven't talked to them all day and then when you finally do, your whole day has a brand new purpose.
MAYBE that makes me a hopeless romantic, but I'd rather be hopelessly alone than resentfully with someone. So now, I believe that the girl that will be so amazing that I can't stop thinking about her will come along and just knock me on my butt with such force, that I won't be able to fart for years. But until then, I don't want the senseless hookups and wasteful moments with women who don't respect themselves enough to wait for the man that treats them like they are more precious than
gold, instead of copper.
Okay all my fellow Scandal fans, if you've watched the latest episode... The scene where Mellie tells Olivia that she is Grants everything, is one of the saddest moments and intense nonviolent exchanges I have seen since the scene in Brokeback Mountain where Heath Ledger cries when he finds out that Jake Gyllenhal died. Kudos!
Guys go find real love and enjoy your weekend, safely.
RunPrayCreate!
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